recently i let you guys IN on the KNOW of a certain song that really means so much to me.. called 'comfort'. really.. i thought i should say that..
i like to meditate on the many wonders of life so honestly.. i thought i should share what comfort really means to me with you guys. to me, comfort is anything that brings you a truthful happiness
as well as satisfaction. the term 'comfort' iz not to be limited only to sex kuz comfort is SO MUCH MORE..
example;.. sex may give you a good feel.. leaving u satisfied.. but just kuz you gett a feel good doesnt mean you're happy.. however; u SETTLE kuz u enjoy being satisfied and you confuse satisfaction of the moment with a truthful happiness. checc it out..
'what do you want..? what do you need..?? i'll b right there. comfort, i got comfort to bring to you.'
peace and many blessings..
love, O
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I agree with you 100% O because I dont believe u can get comfort from sex..I think its so much more then that cause just having sex wont make u happy and bring you that comfort you desire..I think its a state of being, envolving and dealing with your feelings and emotions..And just plain sex doesnt fullfill none of that for you..I think you could find more comfort in just laying in the bed with your love one cuddled up and just enjoying bein in eachother presence and things such as that with out you two having to have actual sex..even spending time with your family and friends can bring you comfort..just having people there for you genuinely as you there for them can bring you comfort; complete happiness and satisfaction..I really am anxious to hear this song, I can tell I'm gonna love it already :o) O..YTS!!! BAYBEE!!! Wooooo..YALL BETTA GET READY!!
Ok well I have a lot to say on this subject so here it goes lol. First I have to applaud you for saying comfort isn't only sex because most men today all they seem to want is to get in your pants and I want something more. While the sex may be there comfort temporarily a one night stand or t.o.n.y. wont keep you happy and you may actually regret it later. So these men that just have sex with different woman for that temporary comfort aren't doing themselves any favors because after the meaningless sex the comfort will be gone and they will no longer feel happy. What they really need is to find the woman that can comfort them in other ways, make them happy all the time and not just during the sex. For me comfort would be spending the rest of my life with the one I love ( when I find him lol) and I'm sure the sex in our relationship will make me happy but it wont be the only thing. It will be talking, spending time together doing non sexual things such as going to the movies or bowling. So I guess the comfort I want is a good companion to complete me and hold me down as I well do the same for him. My current comfort would be my loving family and my wonderful friends. Without them I don't know where I would be they have helped thru so much. I lost my dad when I was 11 and that shook me because I was a daddy's girl but I have come toi grow closer with my mother because of it. We do have our times where we don't see eye to eye on things but I love her and I don't know what I would do without her she is my main comfort. The friends I have made on here are also a comfort chatting with yall every night makes me happy so shout to my girls Ess, Sani, Kellz, Shur, KP, Nelle and trice. Also listening to certian music like maybe Omarion lol makes me happy. Sometimes it's just that one song that can touch your soul have you in tears before the song is over, some songs just speak to you like that. If I am having a bad day just throw on some good tunes and vibb out can turn my sour mood into a good one.I think thats about all i have to say I may come back later and add more lol.
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Deep; food for thought.
I like.
No, I'm not going to write a book while trying to figure out exactly what to say... because sometimes my mind and my mouth don't really coincide... my hands play mediator to my thoughts and my speech.
I think I missed the "Comfort" thing in reference to the song... but I think I got the gist of what you wrote. Context clues (throwback)... read for sustenance. So shoutz out to all of the people pretending to be comfortable with their current situation (emphasis on pretending)... because the silly rabbits are confusing "satisfaction of the moment" with that true and genuine happiness (which won't come and go with the seasons).
So question... what is a person (or type of person cuz "Silly Rabbits, Trix are for kids) to do when they find themself in a situation where the same comfort they're making available for another person isn't reciprocated (or a mutual effort)? *Subtract the sarcasm... Long question huh? Told ya... my mind...
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Damn.
I really tried NOT to write a lot, lol. Really, I did.
And it's good to know that I'm not the only night owl on this site. Gosh.
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@MichiraW - honestly, im just saying that comfort shouldnt be held to only meaning one thing. kuz when i say comfort.. some automatically think.. 'oh yeaa you're talk'n about sex..' when thats not the only case.. you feel what im say'n..??
thank you guys..
Wow, I love how you worded that! You really pulled out an essential meaning of comfort and brought forth a special light towards the word in your very own way.
I totally agree with what you said and I really respect it. It’s so refreshing to see the perspective of a REAL male’s thoughts.
Everything you said made absolute sense and there’s nothing left for me to say, lol. You have a good head on your shoulders buddy! Awesomeness.
@omarion - Well I understand when you say that "comfort" isn't strictly nor should it be automatically considered to be in relation to sex. I got that. I get what it DOESN'T mean. However, it might just be me... but I think I missed the part where you elaborated on or had elaborated on what "comfort" DOES mean. So feel free to enlighten me...
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this is like a deeper version of what i mean when i say 'no dick in `08.' SO many times i see women who confuse sex with the total 'comfort' of a relationship. a man's skill in the bedroom does not equal how deep his feelings are for you. ladies have got to learn the difference. and...some KNOW the difference, but still feel like they're finding 'comfort' in the sex when it's really just 'satisfaction.' but you can't get caught up in what is satisfying. i think it may be confusing cuz like u said O comfort INCLUDES satisfaction but is not LIMITED TO satisfaction. wait until you find someone who's willing to be your total 'comfort' versus simply your 'satisfaction.'
and as you said in your saynow, O, your whole concept of 'comfort' is not limited to a relationship between a guy and a girl. this can include family relationships, friend relationships, or like you mentioned with your relationship with God. ya'll STOP being so one-sided about stuff and get your minds out the gutter! expand your minds!!!
Absolutely wonderful concept for a song, sir. I'm actively looking for music that isn't a whole lot of the same thing! Please keep the originality flowing! I love it!
yo, you are soooo very much the business! Every time I hear from you, you gain even more of my respect. just for the record...
:o)
By bringing comfort I think of it as you being able to bring the realization that one can and should be happy in their lives. It's like you don't need what the world says you need. You're living, you're breathing, you're healthy, and whether you know it or not you have people that love you unconditionally. The outside things shouldn't weigh you down, because whatever it is you're think you're missing in your life you have it within you. You just have to look deep within to find it.Sometimes it takes someone else to make you see it.
True happiness can't be found within things and people of the moment. It's within the things that are always going to be there no matter what.
Wooooow I 100% Approve wit u on dis O...Because alot of ppl do think when u say da word "comfort" u are talkin about sex....But to me comfort means so much more...Its true u can find comfort wit ur companion...But u can also find comfort wit family..As fo me I find my comfort in church...So O I cant wait to hear dis song...I kno its goin to be gr8....Well take care n God Bless...
You know O, that brought a few tears to my eyes.
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It's funny because [quiet for period of time]... I know that I'm not happy. This I know for damn sure. And.. baby comfort is not at all what I have. O you got me over here crying and shit..
Ok.. In my situation... it's like I don't know where to start. Leaving is something that has been on my mind for a while... You already know what I have wrote to you so ain't no need for me to re-explain the whole situation.
"Comfort" huh... That's something that I don't have any more. In the beginning I felt like I could tell him anything but it didn't take long to find out that I couldn't. It's like I was being judged in everything I did or said and... when it's somebody that is suppose to love you.. [shm] It's a fucked up feeling. I'm talking about sex cause.. that's just not on my level right now you get me! I'm talking about my relationship as a whole. I don't even know what this is that we have any more, really can't say it's a relationship.
It's like I know what to do but I don't know exactly what to do or even where to start. I'm stressed, I'm always depressed, I'm sad all the time... well, I was. That is until I decided not to care and I don't. To think about, if didn't care.. I wouldn't be telling you about it. Put it like this, I don't care nor feel for him the way that I used to.
That was touching O. That was real touching. A very touchy issue too! But I can't get no more respect or love for you then I already have. I'll get at you later.
Much love, Shaye!!!!
Oh, and excuse my language up there. I was having some moments.
Oh, and I do like the new pic!
u kno ess u r right it is a deeper version of your challenge
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can u r so right even though u crazy
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u 2 dani its the truth we need some real men
so deep with your thoughts & words, & I love it you said it all & I truly agree. having that feeling can be good, but yet if the connection isn't there mainly mentally & you don't truly feel you can confide in that person, it's not happiness at all. happiness & comfort come in so many deeper ways & on so many more levels beyond that, and especially not just sex. With that said, I cannot wait to hear this song..
hi omarion i do feel what ur saying, but being comfortable u could be talking bout a lot of things, like being comfortable wit ur surroundings, relaxation and also sex, and girls i agree wit yall to, like u can get comfort from sex but if ur not with that person, after the sex its not so comfortable, but omarion i know now what u do for comfort, my favorite way of getting comfortable , is coming home from a long day of work and just kicking my feet up and listening to some music, i love music, or just watching some t.v., i feel as tho a person doesnt kno what comfort is, if they havent went threw the discomfort like having long days of work and school and just bussing ur ass to do what you have to do excuse my language, there is nothing more comfortable, then relaxing after a long day of work, and to add the ice cream wit ur cake being with a love one, thank u omarion for the food for thought thought
Gail K
Oh yea!! Love the new pic O!! Gettin' your profile shot on!!
@BHBAD - lol.. checc you out. not in cali?? no lucy's OR fatburger for you girl
Hi o, i agree in what u say about comfort because comfort does mean about sex it means more to that. What i am trying to say is comfort mean to me is communicating, have fun, hold hand, go to the park, u know what i am say not basic on sex all the ime. That what these little boy out here dont get now, that is why i am so longing cause every guy i meet just want me for one thing and i refuse to let myseft to be hurt. So i am glad u are a real man and keep doing what u do and be a real man. LUV Valerie, Where can I find and listen to comfort.
that is so true. i agree with you. comfort doesn't only have to mean having sex or getting pleasue from it, comfort is something that should last long term and show results of ones true happiness. i feel u